First, understand your own style. Boudoir photography can have many different feels. Art is subjective, and it is necessary that you understand what you like. Photography can have many kinds of aesthetics. Find examples of photos that you like. Do you prefer soft or sophisticated ? Romantic or racy? Ethereal or edgy? There are no wrong answers here, but you want to make sure that you find someone with the kind of approach you prefer. When you look at this person’s photographs, can you envision yourself being a part of their work?

It is also essential to know if your photographer specializes in boudoir. This doesn’t mean that they cannot do other types of sessions, but boudoir involves a unique and specific skill set. It is completely different than family or landscape photography. How experienced are they? How long have they been in business? Do they have a variety of body types in their portfolio? If they have only worked with fitness models, they may not understand what poses flatter a larger frame. If they don’t have examples of women over 50 on their website, they may not have experience in capturing more mature women.

Additionally, editing style matters. Again, look at the images they advertise. Some photographers edit quite a bit; others keep images more natural, and true to life. It is up to you to decide what kind of look fits your ideal. Retouching is typical, but you would probably like to recognize yourself. Something temporary, like a blemish, being edited away is not a big deal. But scars and stretch marks are a part of your amazing and beautiful body, and they don’t need to be taken away to make a work of art. 

One of the most critical things to consider is that you really need to like the photographer – not just their work. Connection matters. Is this a person who makes you feel comfortable? Is it going to be a positive atmosphere where you feel safe and at ease? Trust your gut. The vibe you feel is crucial – this is a relationship that really needs to be the right fit. This is a person that you will be trusting to see you in an intimate and vulnerable way. Feeling relaxed and truly yourself is something that will be captured through their lens. Posing for a boudoir shoot may seem uncomfortable at first, but with the right photographer, it will also be fun and funny and enjoyable. Some of the sexiest photos will capture a huge laugh. 

Of course, you will want to look at reviews and testimonials. If a boudoir photographer seems to be someone with an approach and style you align with, see what people are saying. Set up a consultation to have your questions answered. You will want to know if they have a client closet, if they offer guidance on wardrobe and posing, and whether or not they communicate clearly and professionally. You may want to ask about privacy concerns and how they will keep your images protected. You will need to know if they have a hair and make-up artist on staff, and you can ask even why they shoot boudoir. That answer can tell you a lot about how they think.

Now it is time to consider your budget. Boudoir is a luxury experience. And while you need to take cost into account, it should not be the first question in your search. A good boudoir photographer delivers an unforgettable experience. They will take their time, create incredible works of art, and have many available product options. You are investing in yourself and in art that will last forever. While cost is certainly a consideration, it should be something that is a factor after you have found photographers that deliver the kind of session and results that you want. 

It could be overwhelming to decide on who the right artist is for you. But, in the end, you will have tangible proof that you made the right choice.