PLEASURE RESOURCES

Because we ALL have the right to a life full of pleasure.

Why has pleasure become become a dirty word in our culture? Why are men expected to seek it out while women are taught they exist for the pleasure of men? It's time we all start questioning these archaic paradigms. We deserve to feel pleasure and we have no obligation to the puritanical patriarchy who tells us otherwise. It's time to rise up and demand what has always been our right: pleasure in all forms.  Let's get started.

Educational Books

• Unbound by Kasia Urbaniak
• Come as You Are by Emily Nagoski, Ph.D.
• She Comes First by Ian Kerner, Ph.D.
• Pleasure Activism: The Politics of Feeling Good by Adrienne Maree Brown 
  
• Sex at Dawn by Christopher Ryan (about ethical non-monogamy)
• Untrue by Wednesday Martin (about ethical non-monogamy)

Workbooks

• The Come as You Are Workbook by Emily Nagoski, Ph.D.
• Solo Sex: A Workbook for Becoming Your Best Lover
• The Adventure Challenge...in Bed (for date night adventures)
  

Podcasts

• The Come As You Are Podcast with Emily Nagoski, Ph.D.
• The Bad Girls Bible Podcast (heteronormative sex advice)
• The Healthy Hoes Podcast
• The Gentle Dommecast (podcast) with Miss Vivian
  

Other Media

• How to Understand the 5 Basic Levels of Life's Pleasures by Sally Kempton (article for yogis)
• The Principles of Pleasure on Netflix
• Planet Sex on Hulu
• Erika Lust Ethical Porn
• Bad Girls Bible (heteronormative sex advice)
• Afrosexology (made for POC, but great advice for all)